Wednesday, June 19, 2013

A Park is a Park is a Park … Or is it?


Picture A:  For the purposes of this post, I am withholding captions until the end.  A key is posted at the bottom of the post.
 

Growing up, my idea of what a garden looked like was fairly narrow.  There were really only two possibilities.  One genre was expressed in the form of my father’s and grandfather’s vegetable gardens, which were rows of edible potential – the list of acceptable vegetables was quite narrow now that I think of it.  Think of an illustration from Beatrix Potter’s  Peter Rabbit.  Cucumbers, cabbages, zucchini, beans were all common.  The thought of rhubarb, carrots, or melon while acceptably within the confines of a typical garden, were also extravagant.  Quite exotic and exciting. 
 
 
Picture B


The other genre was well displayed in my mother’s flower beds.  These were spaces on the edge of a lawn which were edge-to-edge color during certain seasons, and a strange array of greens and leaves during others.  The population of these flower gardens was far more diverse than the vegetable gardens.  Each year my mother would go to gardening centers, farms and other odd places to bring home something brightly colored with an appropriate seasonal match to what was already living in her garden space.  Inevitably she would have a mix of perfectly matching flowers and whatever was on sale that week.  In some cases whatever she had discovered in conversation or neighborly visits to other flower gardeners.  Thus the small gardens would be so choked full of plants and flowers that the weeds barely stood a chance.  At least, this is how it all seemed through the eyes of a 10 year old growing up in a place with an extremely limited growing season.  The mere thought that there are places in the world where you could plant corn more than once during a single season would have blown my mind!

 
Picture C

 
 
As I grew, and traveled more I learned that these definitions of “garden” were clearly not the only options.  In high school I visited Versailles and was excited to see vast French gardens, only to be horribly disappointed because … it's all dirt!  The idea that gardens, public or otherwise, would leave huge sections of their land exposed as a choice and a contrast to highlight the careful shaping of planted bushes and tress was both shocking and ugly to my undeveloped eye.  I still prefer a more filled garden to a sparse decoration of shapes and design, but there is beauty to be had in either setting. 
 
 
Picture D
 
 
On occasion though it still strikes me just how similar some gardens can be.  On a bright sunny day recently I sat in Boston’s Public Garden only to be struck by how similar that place was to Hyde Park in London.  The more I thought about it, the more it also reminded me of the small park in my home town, which despite the extraordinary differences in public funding, had similar ambience and a striking feeling of home. 
 
 
Picture E


Throughout this post I’ve sprinkled a picture or two of gardens, parks, and a few other locations that elicit a similar feel.  Although some of these places are so remarkably different that it would be like comparing apples and orangutans, they are also so similar that a jet-lagged traveler may, for a moment, forget where she is. 


Picture F
 
 
Picture G



Picture H
 
 
 
 
A:  Public Garden, Boston, USA; B:  Hyde Park, London, England; C:  Safari Walk, Nairobi, Kenya; D:  Central Square, Taboshar, Tajikistan; E:  The Road to Kara-Sakal, Tajikistan; F:  Hyde Park, London, England; G:  Khujand, Tajikistan; H:  Lincoln Park, Chicago, USA


 

Monday, May 13, 2013

The Things That Make Us Squirm:

Before I begin the bulk of this post, I’d like to make an announcement of sorts … or maybe it’s just a public service announcement for anyone wishing to follow this blog.  The posting schedule, hap-hazard though it is, is about to change.  In the past I’ve tried to post 1-2 times a week but only while I’m involved in extensive travel.  In order to keep this a little more consistent, I’ve decided to try to maintain a monthly post.  This should make it possible to keep things going even when the travels are more local or perhaps, dare I say, tame?  Since this blog was originally set up to alert my family to the fact that I’m alive when I travel in places that make them worry … there will be times when I’ll post more prolifically beyond the monthly schedule. 

I should put a warning near the beginning of this, that if you are given horrific nightmares by the scuttling scurry of certain arachnids, this post might not be for you.  While I too have a strong natural aversion to these creatures, I also find it interesting how they are often both loved and feared all at the same time.  Now, on to the post!

Humans have a strange relationship with the creepy crawlies of this world.  Some peoples are, of course, more squeamish than others, but it seems that closeness tends to equal comfort … except of course in the case of actual danger, from say poisonous creepy crawlies.  In which case, it would be those in the know who are most uncomfortable and the unsuspecting tourist who is indeed at the most risk for lack of squirm.

A not so dear friend who paid a visit one night in Atlanta.  Upon moving, I thought I was safe … only to find that the Northeast of these United States is also home to the same creatures.  Eww.
 
Last summer while walking with a friend one night in Atlanta we noticed a lovely inhabitation of roaches.  It was the night before trash pickup, which I imagine must be a feasting holiday for these little buggers (meant only in the “bug” sense, not the British slang … I know nothing of their sexual habits), and as we walked along they scurried down the sidewalk ahead of us.  Had these beings possessed more fur, and been called something less revolting like “squirrels” then perhaps we would have invited their escort down the path.  I am not entirely convinced that roaches carry more disease than mice or rats, but they are certainly more hated for it. 

Walking further down the path we came to a rather interestingly designed house.  While I’m not quite sure I understand the overall decorative theme that the owner was going for, there were some beautiful mosaics lining the walkway. 


There was a whole series of these tile depictions that were pretty interesting and it struck me as odd.  On the one hand roaches and slugs are disgusting but even moths and dragonflies - the often less attractive cousins to butterflies - are perfectly fine.  Why is a snail a delicacy, but a garden slug a subject of shrieks?  They must have been marginally equivalent before the first man decided … hmmm, wonder if that’s edible.  Something to ponder as the weather changes and creepy crawlies look for new places to take refuge ….

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Bringing Us All Back Together Again

Warning:  This post is full of pictures that really only relate to the last few sentences of this post, but that’s okay because everyone likes stunning pictures and delicious food.  Right?


Believe it or not, these are lemons

Oh look.  Bit of a pause.  Okay, so I haven’t been particularly good at writing lately ... at all.  I own that.  I’m sure your lives have carried you through many days and you’ve all survived in my absence.  Truth is though, I’ve missed this.  If you’ve missed this as well, I hope you’re excited, because during my little hiatus over the winter months I haven’t been hibernating as one perhaps should when temperatures dip dramatically below freezing and blizzards come roaring in.  In the time that I haven’t been writing I’ve taken a road trip up the eastern coast of the United States from Georgia through the Shenandoah Valley to Boston.  I travelled to Maine as the leaves began to change, and then again in the dead of winter.  Funny thing is, winter in Maine isn’t dead at all.  Considering the multitude of layers of clothing that are required to be outside for any length of time, you’d think it’d just be easier to be dead … but that’s a story for a different day.  Perhaps a day when the weather outside is cooking us in the northern hemisphere and we need to think back kindly on a day when intellectually we know it was cold even though we can’t fathom what it would be like to feel cold anymore … because it has just been So Long since that has happened.

Potatoes and Carrots

Downsides –

1. It’s been so long since I’ve taken part in this blogging exercise that keeping on track and making any sort of intelligible sense is hard.  Like convincing a cat to take a bath kind of hard.  Like, me staying in one place for an extended period of time kind of hard.  I would continue to tell you how difficult ... but that would be yet another tangent.  Focus!

2.  I seem to allude to many things … many things that I’m not likely to address for a while.  Remember that road trip?  Yeah, that’s not what this post is about.  Gotcha!



This post is actually about sameness.  This post is about the world, as one, with humans on it.  We, as a community, have so much more in common than we ever have had as differences.  Okay, so a post on sameness alone could either be 5,000 printed pages (and) or the most boring post in the history of posts, which given the qualifications it takes to start your own blog … might be saying something.  This post is about one of the grandest things that brings us together.  No, not your family.  I love my family but I can say with a certain amount of surety that while a family might be brought together just by their familialness … they are also sometimes driven out of the room from one another because of that very same familialness.  This is a post about food.  Who doesn’t like food?  I don't know of a single culture in which food isn’t used to bring people together.  You want to entice warring clans to talk – present them with food.  You want to convince staff members to come to a meeting and pretend to enjoy one another’s company – provide food.  You want students to show up to an event – Food. 


Please come to our wedding, oh yeah, and you’re required to give us money/gifts when you arrive –  No problem!  Just make sure there’s food.  Want the kids to come home after they’ve become adults?  You ply them with good food their entire childhood and only give them the recipe for the most difficult dishes.  They will happily return, if only for Mom’s stuffed shells, Dad’s barbecue sauce, Eje’s beef and tomato noodles, or Oma’s wiener schnitzel.  You ask almost any traveler who has been on the road longer than a month or two what they miss most from home and food will likely be within the top three answers … if not the very first answer.  I love you mom and dad, and have missed family very much when I’ve travelled, but in 2007 when taking my first bite of real cheese that melts, I cried.  What a reunion.  My traveling companion and I took pictures with that cheese, and when we returned to our home base away from home, we carried hike packs full of marshmallows, peanut butter, and other scrumptious delights to our fellow travelers, so that they too might have a taste of home.

Most times when you think about getting together with people there is food involved.  Dinner parties, dinner and a movie, going out for drinks, meeting up for coffee.  Even going out to play sports with friends usually ends with some kind of food … not because we haven’t already eaten, but because it’s a common space in which human beings can share.  We don’t all have the same tastes, but we all require food.  We all keep each other emotionally alive while the food does the rest.  Food is a beautiful thing.  And today while we blamed the lamb that was for dinner, I spent time with a friend and she and I ignored the world, enjoyed fellow company, and cooked some food.  Bon Appetite, and as always, thanks for reading.



Friday, August 31, 2012

A Quick Thought:

Watching TV I saw a commercial for Steak and Shake. My first reaction:  That's weird.  So much for regional commercials. There aren't any steak and shakes anywhere near here ... oh wait. I'm in Atlanta again - Steak and Shake central. Nevermind.

 It's like jet-lag without the mental trigger of exhaustion to remind yourself that you don't know *when* you are.

I'll give you three guesses:  Where was this picture taken?  Hint - not in Georgia.

 
Happy Labor Day Everyone!
 
 

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Animal Farm and Eco System

In a conversation I had recently with a mentor of mine I realized how absolutely ridiculous but entirely entertaining and fascinating politics can be the world over.  I’ve prepared a few case studies to make my point.  However, because I intend to continue to travel to some of these places, names have been changed and the best cases have been left out.  Sorry, but visas are gold and words can hurt prides as much as snack foods can endanger presidents.  *ahem* orge-gay ush-bay!

 Careful Murph … I’m not sure that peanut’s been categorized as “safe”!

The first example doesn’t even involve executive office.  Our friend, we’ll call him Tom Atkins, trying desperately to grab for a little piece of power in a small town senate race had the unfortunate gaff that half of the politicians in these united states fear.  

Regardless of the “scientific” facts that he erroneously began spewing – incidentally, who does he think he is?  Only the governor of Maine is given quite THAT much leeway on biological misquotations.  Anywho, regardless of his mis-statements and mistakes in all things biological Mr. Atkins feels that rape must be categorized as legitimate or illegitimate.  This by itself is unfortunate, but the real folly comes from the rest of his party who frantically danced around hoping you wouldn’t notice the greater issue.  His compadres, vehemently shushed him like a classroom trying to conceal their mischief from a less observant teacher. 
Did they really think we don’t see it?  So many politicians believing that babies should be protected and rapists thrown to the wolves and the victims … well … the victims are just unfortunate biproducts of the whole sorted affair that frankly we’d rather just went away.  We’ll handle that later, and by later we mean never.  Well done US of A, luckily for you, you’re not alone in the absurdities. 

Don't look now Rico ... but I think
someone's making you look foolish!
 
Many of you have heard me talk of a certain Tstan … no not that one, the first one.  I have seen many a maneuvering from this great land, from a book that you can read three times and be assured entrance into heaven and complete knowledge is required in order to gain entrance into college … whose sequels are incidentally used as toilet paper in outlying villages.  Recently it was announced that this one party state – indeed this one person government, would include a little opposition.  A new party is being formed!  Hurrah!  This party of industrialists and entrepreneurs has a leader, and an office, and a newspaper.  Heck there’s even an address … an address where workers can be found.  And yet there are still those that say this isn’t enough.  They wish to SEE the leader, and learn THINGS about him.  Poppy cock!  Ah, to long for the days before radio.  The days of telegraph, when you never really could be certain if candidates for your executive office truly existed or not.  Oh wait, you still have telegraph services as a major form of domestic communication?  You only recently had other options for information sharing?  You win Tstan.  Break given.


Sorry can’t tell you who this is,
but he was a great leader.
I’m sure!

Next in the long history of the world are some silly shenanigans in east Africa.  A female politician elected by her district to act in a national forum was strongly opposed to a new constitution.  This woman, a mother, a farm owner and a widow was vehemently against this new constitution.  In a place where land disputes can drag on for 15-30 years or more, and has led to civil unrest, she did not feel that the new constitution’s changes to land rights were in her country’s best interests.  The issue:  The new constitution allowed women to own and inherit land.  She apparently felt it was more strongly in her country’s interest for her lands to be fought over for 30 years after she died rather than have them inherited and clearly owned by one of her children. 

I could go on and on, and while this post does seem, and perhaps is, drippingly political.  Ew!  My point is less so:  People are absurd.  Regardless of race, creed, sex, fingernail polish color preference or any other difference you can find, we quite often prefer absurdity over logic and intelligence when it comes to forming partnerships to govern ourselves and our fellow men … and yes by men I mean men and women, no disrespect intended or derogatory context for using the word women which is derived from the word “men”.  Ridiculous!

And now, more absurdity: 


Squirrel
 
 
Not a Squirrel!
 
 
 

Monday, August 13, 2012

No, no … Not that Georgia.

Trying something new here today on the Blogovel …. domestic travel.  Although, while this is domestic travel for me, for many readers this might actually be a trip to The America.  Having recently arrived in Atlanta I have apparently been the worst tourist and tour guide that this town has seen.  These are the claims of others.  I have had a brilliant time.  I’ve eaten the sweetest waffles in the history of man … okay that might be a slight exaggeration …. but not by much.  The Waffle House certainly knows how to take a medium for the conveyance of sweet fruits and syrups and make it a tasty pastry in its own right.  I’ve also had the opportunity to visit the puppet museum.  I don’t actually know that that’s what it’s called, but it’s a workshop/museum that’s free on Thursdays during certain hours, and features Jim Henson’s creations.  That however, is not the subject of this post.  There’s something WAY BETTER that I have had the chance to experience.

Food trucks and King of Pops (http://kingofpops.net).

Think about it.  How weird is it that walking down the street we will stop at a random truck with crazy paint on the side and trust food that people who practically live out of these vehicles prepare for us.  It’s the adult version of accepting candy from a van with a wizard panorama painted on the side.  Not a good idea …. But SUCH a good idea! 





Going out for food in Atlanta (which seems to be the biggest highlight for most city residents), we went for a walk and ended up in a parking lot in which 5 or 6 trucks had convened with specialties ranging from Blaxican (soul inspired Mexican food featured on the right of the above photo) to cupcakes.  It is worth note when anything distracts me from buying cupcakes, but I didn’t give it more than a few seconds’ thought.  I was going home with a popsicle. 




This is the second time that I’ve encountered King of Pops.  I’ve heard stories of their sustainability, only throwing out two bags of trash a week, and the website proudly announces the seasonality of their ingredients.  While these are all things that I think are good in a company, and I applaud their efforts, these are sort of the standards  that I think should exist naturally in the world.  I naively do not choose businesses because of these practices, but will punish other businesses when I find that they are in grave violation of these principles … always after the fact.

No, the reason I like King of Pops is because of the pops.  The remarkably creative flavor combinations, and basically put:  they taste amazing.  So far I’ve tasted the hibiscus margarita flavor and chocolate sea salt, and my only complaint is that they melt too quickly … given that it was 104+ degrees (F), I can hardly blame the company for that. 

So perhaps I’m not the best tour guide, and I don’t see the expected destinations of a typical tourist while I’m in the Atlanta area, but I’ve discovered some little gems, and that’s enough for me.

Friday, August 10, 2012

And Then The Rains Came

Written:  7/25/12

No doubt many of you have not heard, and those of you who have, by the time you’re reading this, you’ve probably already started to worry about other things, but early yesterday morning the Tajik government launched a major offensive into its autonomous region.  This area of the country, which international news agencies are quick to point out, borders one of the more lawless regions of Afghanistan, and here in Tajikistan it stands alone, largely governing itself and for the most part minding its own business.  … except of course when it doesn’t.  In an attempt to avoid too much politics and dragging on for paragraphs with an analysis of this side or that, I’ll leave you to do a quick google search.  Suffice it to say that it looks a lot like war, and no matter which side you’re on there are losses.

This morning when I left my apartment, okay, to be fair … this afternoon when I left my apartment and walked to work the streets were somber.  These are not normally the streets of carnival, and I do not expect cartwheels and cheers, but on most days there will be smiles, stares, and bubbling conversations.  More importantly, there will be conversations.  This afternoon though, pedestrians are rare, and conversations are few. 

At work, talking with colleagues, the subject is entirely avoided.   When asked how I slept, I admit that I didn’t sleep well because I kept waking up worried, checking the news for updates, but more importantly checking my email and facebook.  I am not really worried for my safety.  In reality I am in no more danger than I was the day before, which is to say almost none at all.  I am worried that my family will worry.  That I will sleep through an email or a panicked facebook message which will spiral out of control while I slumber.  My colleague shakes his head and mutters how sad it is, and how my parents would worry so much if they knew what was happening here – obviously worrying about his own children.  If he were a cartoon character there would be a storm cloud over his head.

The day moves on, and no one talks. 

Hours later I find myself in the office alone.  It’s been this way for about an hour now … another rarity.  It is then that I start to hear it.  Pitter-patter, pitter-patter.  For the first time since I arrived the weather is doing something other than shining sun.  I opened the window and in came a cool breeze, a cloud burst, and a smile erupts on my face.  Then the winds come.  I thought it best to close the window and was glad I did.  The skies opened up and instantly the sidewalks became rivers.  Sheets of rain fell and more than once I heard glass shattering as the winds rearranged the furniture. 

Another colleague, who doesn’t speak much English, poked his head in the room with a big smile on his face.  “Ok?”  I laughed, “yeah, okay!” 

20 minutes after the rains had stopped the street was still a raging river, and a doctor I work with offered me a ride.  Passing downed power-lines and coursing through streets with inches of water on them we laughed as the water flew from the car’s tires.  People on the street were also laughing, and most didn’t even seem to mind the inevitability of the waves of water kicked up by passing cars. 

While the situation in the south isn’t gone, and the fear will return along with the dread from those who have already lived through one civil war, for now we are cleansed.  If only for a moment, we have remembered how to laugh, children are playing and old women run happily through puddles in the streets.